Give me a broke man with heart and ambition..I’m not scared..I know how to be a team player..and work together to build an empire..for him..I’m ten toes down
Hand me a paid Nigga with too much ego and pride..I know how to show him money ain’t shit and his pride is overrated..for him..I smile..and walk away
I can’t be bought!!! Once I realized my worth..I knew no man alive could afford me..So there was no need for me to put a value on him in regards to my heart..
He has to give me what money cant buy his heart, ambition, determination, drive, all that good shit!!!
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
A reminder to myself
A reminder to myself:
Believe that you are awesome, because you are, and believe it because u said so. Your awesomeness needs no justification from anyone except for you.
Believe that any mountain in your way is movable or climbable because inside of you God lives, he can and will do all things while using you as a vessel
Believe that you are beautiful regardless of what society says is beautiful, I mean seriously, what does society know? The majority follow the trends they know nothing about being a trendsetter, and you, you are a trendsetter
Believe that your past is just that your past, middle finger up to those still talking about it because the truth is, they are only talking about your past because they are still living in theirs.
Believe that even on your worst days if you give your best tomorrow has no choice to get better.
And most importantly, BELIEVE! Believe in something, believe in yourself, everything started with a belief that it could be done now all you have to do is believe you are the one that can do it!
Beautiful day my people
"Straight Drop"
AshleeRoche
BE READY!
WOMEN: Just because u get lonely and WANT a man does not mean u are READY for a man..u must first find yourself..u can’t expect a man to help u find u..how can he give u what u want and u dont even know what u want..hell u cant stand to be with yourself..but expect someone else to put up with that shit..get your mind..your heart..and you up to par..so that u will be a help meet instead of a burden. Our women stay talking about how they cant find good man. You cant find a good man because you are a liability you dont have shit to bring to the table. Those music videos and the media have you feeling like all you need to have is a fat ass, some weave, and a name brand but real men like real shit. He doesnt care if you have an ass, he wants to know if you have some cash, and if you dont do you at least have a plan to get some. He doesnt care about your hair, he wants to know if there is a brain somewhere beneath the weave glue. Who cares if your shirt is by Chanel, he wants to know what your heart is like. Your nails yeah they look good on you, but he wants to know if you can pop off that acrylic long enough to build a foundation. And everyone loves those sexy red bottoms but in the game of love sometimes you have to go places that heels cant go, he wants to know do you have it in you to lace up some tennis shoes and fight this fight with him. Most of all, he wants to make sure you are you are comfortable with yourself. If you cant be comfortable with yourself you cant be comfortable with anyone else. It is a necessity for you to learn to be alone, some women have never been alone jumping from man to man to get that feeling of love. Its like a crackhead chasing his first high! The sad part is even if you do run into that feeling of love, you still wouldnt know it, the first feeling of love you should feel in your adult life is the love of yourself. Then you would know what love feels like so if anyone gives you any other feeling you would automatically know THEY GOTTA GO!! Men love women that know who they are, what they want, and arent afraid to go get it. If all you are bringing to the table are your insecurities, bills, babydaddy drama, and a headache then you should know why you are single. Then some of yall have requirements for men that you havent even lived up to!! He has to be handsome, have a good job, no kids, a car and a house but your ass is ugly, unemployed, with 5 kids, riding the bus, and living with your momma. BITCH, GET YO LIFE!! Instead of looking at his life look at your own..then ask yourself “If the shoe was on the other foot, would I want me?” HELL NAW!!!!
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
PSA
PSA: I don't know if you know it..but if women would get morals..learn to love other women instead of looking at them as competition..learn to love themselves and demand the respect they deserve..
It would force men to get back on their game..
Women lowered their value..and men noticed..so they lowered their effort..
U have the power..the power of the P
have u not noticed..they keep their swag up..cause that's all girls require in 2013..
require some respect and love..and they will give it..but its a team effort WE ALL MUST REQUIRE CHANGE..but it starts with you
It would force men to get back on their game..
Women lowered their value..and men noticed..so they lowered their effort..
U have the power..the power of the P
have u not noticed..they keep their swag up..cause that's all girls require in 2013..
require some respect and love..and they will give it..but its a team effort WE ALL MUST REQUIRE CHANGE..but it starts with you
The Right
Im pissed off and angry
what gives u the right
to lay down make a child
and leave a woman to fight
for 30 years she did it by herself
fed us, clothed us, kept us in perfect health
for 30 plus years she worked long hard days
working hard for people that barely wanted to pay
but she was a soldier tho she never would complain
she did what she had to do, sucked it up…
and charged it to the game
I never saw her cry as a child but I know she did
what about the times she wondered how to feed her kids
she never let it show we never knew it was hard
Hell, I never knew till I got the single mother card
Again I ask who the fuck are u to take away her life
just because she was strong enough to carry the weight
didn’t mean by herself
she should pay
Im pissed off and Im angry because she fought all of her life
now she is worn and tired..
and all we wanna do is make it alright
I talked to my brother he said sis i gotta make her proud
she worked so hard and gave so much
we gotta come thru for her now..
Im pissed off and Im mad cause he shouldnt have those thoughts
at 16 he should be focused on school
not the struggles that were fought
Im proud that he understands cause I know he will be a better man
But the lesson should have been taught by example not by the struggles of my mothers hands
Or maybe Im mad and pissed off because in himI see my son
and in my mother I see myself and what is to come
Again I ask what gives you the right
to give and then take a life
with no intention whatsoever of even doing right..I want a fucking answer tonight
then to have your nerve to do it again
to another woman giving her a predictable end
and live your life as if your right..i need some damn answers tonight
Im angry and Im pissed because she never was mad
in all the years i never heard her say one thing bad..
she never spoke down on men she didn’t have a bitter heart
she accepted life as it came..and played the best part
Im angry and Im mad..cause we had to learn on our own
the things that dads are supposed to teach even if they aren’t in the home
we gave ourselves the game spotting out the real from the fakes
to hell with the birds and the bees..we needed to know about the snakes
I WAS so angry and so mad..until I saw the blessing
watching her fight was the greatest lesson
we learned to stand tall..let nothing make u fall
accept what it is for what it is..and with your head up handle your biz
u may cry sometimes but don’t stay there long..lift your head, dry your eyes, and carry on
don’t hold grudges people make mistakes..just make sure u keep them in their proper place
but the greatest example was simple..make the best of what u have
don’t get caught up in the things from your past
you can’t change it..and don’t be bitter..starting today make a change
it won’t be easy..expect the sun but also a whole lot of rain
and never ever ever let the next see your pain
so my siblings and I will lace up our boots
and fight this good old fight
we will make changes get our paper up
and take care of our mother right
but again I have to ask..who are u to give and take a life..my heart just will not rest..I need answers tonight…
what gives u the right
to lay down make a child
and leave a woman to fight
for 30 years she did it by herself
fed us, clothed us, kept us in perfect health
for 30 plus years she worked long hard days
working hard for people that barely wanted to pay
but she was a soldier tho she never would complain
she did what she had to do, sucked it up…
and charged it to the game
I never saw her cry as a child but I know she did
what about the times she wondered how to feed her kids
she never let it show we never knew it was hard
Hell, I never knew till I got the single mother card
Again I ask who the fuck are u to take away her life
just because she was strong enough to carry the weight
didn’t mean by herself
she should pay
Im pissed off and Im angry because she fought all of her life
now she is worn and tired..
and all we wanna do is make it alright
I talked to my brother he said sis i gotta make her proud
she worked so hard and gave so much
we gotta come thru for her now..
Im pissed off and Im mad cause he shouldnt have those thoughts
at 16 he should be focused on school
not the struggles that were fought
Im proud that he understands cause I know he will be a better man
But the lesson should have been taught by example not by the struggles of my mothers hands
Or maybe Im mad and pissed off because in himI see my son
and in my mother I see myself and what is to come
Again I ask what gives you the right
to give and then take a life
with no intention whatsoever of even doing right..I want a fucking answer tonight
then to have your nerve to do it again
to another woman giving her a predictable end
and live your life as if your right..i need some damn answers tonight
Im angry and Im pissed because she never was mad
in all the years i never heard her say one thing bad..
she never spoke down on men she didn’t have a bitter heart
she accepted life as it came..and played the best part
Im angry and Im mad..cause we had to learn on our own
the things that dads are supposed to teach even if they aren’t in the home
we gave ourselves the game spotting out the real from the fakes
to hell with the birds and the bees..we needed to know about the snakes
I WAS so angry and so mad..until I saw the blessing
watching her fight was the greatest lesson
we learned to stand tall..let nothing make u fall
accept what it is for what it is..and with your head up handle your biz
u may cry sometimes but don’t stay there long..lift your head, dry your eyes, and carry on
don’t hold grudges people make mistakes..just make sure u keep them in their proper place
but the greatest example was simple..make the best of what u have
don’t get caught up in the things from your past
you can’t change it..and don’t be bitter..starting today make a change
it won’t be easy..expect the sun but also a whole lot of rain
and never ever ever let the next see your pain
so my siblings and I will lace up our boots
and fight this good old fight
we will make changes get our paper up
and take care of our mother right
but again I have to ask..who are u to give and take a life..my heart just will not rest..I need answers tonight…
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