BE READY!

WOMEN: Just because u get lonely and WANT a man does not mean u are READY for a man..u must first find yourself..u can’t expect a man to help u find u..how can he give u what u want and u dont even know what u want..hell u cant stand to be with yourself..but expect someone else to put up with that shit..get your mind..your heart..and you up to par..so that u will be a help meet instead of a burden. Our women stay talking about how they cant find good man. You cant find a good man because you are a liability you dont have shit to bring to the table. Those music videos and the media have you feeling like all you need to have is a fat ass, some weave, and a name brand but real men like real shit. He doesnt care if you have an ass, he wants to know if you have some cash, and if you dont do you at least have a plan to get some. He doesnt care about your hair, he wants to know if there is a brain somewhere beneath the weave glue. Who cares if your shirt is by Chanel, he wants to know what your heart is like. Your nails yeah they look good on you, but he wants to know if you can pop off that acrylic long enough to build a foundation. And everyone loves those sexy red bottoms but in the game of love sometimes you have to go places that heels cant go, he wants to know do you have it in you to lace up some tennis shoes and fight this fight with him. Most of all, he wants to make sure you are you are comfortable with yourself. If you cant be comfortable with yourself you cant be comfortable with anyone else. It is a necessity for you to learn to be alone, some women have never been alone jumping from man to man to get that feeling of love. Its like a crackhead chasing his first high! The sad part is even if you do run into that feeling of love, you still wouldnt know it, the first feeling of love you should feel in your adult life is the love of yourself. Then you would know what love feels like so if anyone gives you any other feeling you would automatically know THEY GOTTA GO!! Men love women that know who they are, what they want, and arent afraid to go get it. If all you are bringing to the table are your insecurities, bills, babydaddy drama, and a headache then you should know why you are single. Then some of yall have requirements for men that you havent even lived up to!! He has to be handsome, have a good job, no kids, a car and a house but your ass is ugly, unemployed, with 5 kids, riding the bus, and living with your momma. BITCH, GET YO LIFE!! Instead of looking at his life look at your own..then ask yourself “If the shoe was on the other foot, would I want me?” HELL NAW!!!!